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When I O I force the persons member out of me with the contractions I have which kills it for them.

I have done this, too. During the arousal process I like to squeeze really hard-- it helps me Get There. Unfortunately my last two partners with their ED issues have made this impossible-- my bf even said to me once during the Act, "Hey, don't push out!" because his Fragile E was to soft to stand up to the pressure.