Mr_MD I recognize that i may have exaggerated a bit. Men? Exaggerate? Nooooo But seriously, just remember that even if she does fake sometimes, it is because she does want to please you and be sexy/attractive to you. That's better than lying there like a lump of coal, right? Plus, as I've said about myself, I enjoyed every minute of the "fake" O sex. Your W seems to enjoy sex too and most of the time she probably is O-ing, so it's not that big a deal. So don't sweat, my pet. How do you approach her about this? When? Don't. Unless you think it is becoming a habitual problem. If she is avoiding sex. If she is emotionally detached. Then, you may need to address it. Note subtle reference again to Grey's Anatomy...you rock, LfL!!) Noted. And Thanks! You're too cool for school yourself!