So, I guess we can thus say to fake at the early stages of the R, before real deep emotional connection, commitment, and trust is natural and common. But that chit had better stop real quicklike once that level of trust and commitment is established, huh?
Well, it should, but it may not, due to a) the woman not knowing how to really reach O with a partner, and b) the intimacy may not be translating into the sexual part of the R. Not to mention, every time she fakes, the woman is digging a deeper hole to get out of. Maybe there is a point of no return. She has faked for Years and now is going to say something? Hard to do for sure. Easier to continue faking at that point. And I bet a lot of LD women (maybe some HD women too) hate the sexual act for that reason alone. They don't want to fake/lie but don't know how to get out of the vicious cycle. Better to just avoid sex altogether at times. Yes it is practical for an F to take the easier road and fake rather than digging deeper into discovering how to reach orgasm within the F body Exactly. It is often shameful for a woman to talk so openly about her O's and equally as shameful to admit she is not or can't have them. We're not real comfortable discussing faking - very taboo. As Og_Lou said, they don't even cover this stuff in advanced sexuality classes. So it's a good thing we have this board.
