RE GEl
I can certainly understand why it would be difficult if not darned near impossible for a man to hold back when a woman is near an O
Believe me, It was all I could do to hold back. I even went into side cramps several (some what painful from working hard/long) times and thought I was going to have to fake it but knew if the deposit was not there after the deed, I would get busted, and I wanted my O. Any double M/FM standards here?
When I read a guy write " I just love giving my woman an O, that is all I want. I can go w/o an "O", I wince in amazement. I understand on a "different strokes for different folks" IE. intellectual level, but that is about all.
I just remembered something about [B] There are even TV programs stating that O’ing at the same time increases the chance of conception and is one of natures tricks/gifts/ways of passing on genes. Semen comes in at 28 MPH, the cervix dips into the semen pool so that means the M could O first then the FM O’s, for this preservation of the species theory to be valid at a higher level. Must be something people believe. I even heard some myths on TV that “if” the FM does not have an O, the chance of pregnancy is decreased.
Booger Butt Funny GEL. I hope I can remember to not remember that at some future sexy time.
The reason I post BB instead of wife/W is I feel that BB is a separate person with personal traits and W indicates too much of a role or sounds a little too possessive/structured.
I rarely introduce BB as "My Wife," sounds too possessive or gender role like. I might say this is B, we were married in 1968, etc.
Re your situation. I am so glad for you that you’re H is beginning to see the light and is hopefully out of his delusional fear of ?????? and you can be more authentic and express what you really want to express.
Best wishes to your Booger Butt too. BTDT with our own, now it happens with the grandkids.
was not there after the deed, I would get busted, and I wanted my O. 
