GEL, all I can say is wow/surprise/I never knew, that is before this thread.
I tried to hold back when I thought BB was O'ing but couldn't sometimes. Her excitement made it almost impossible for me to contain myself. I thought it was the way things worked (biology) and part of the big plan to preserve the species.
There are even TV programs stating that O’ing at the same time increases the chance of conception and is one of natures tricks/gifts/ways of passing on genes.
So some of the sex scientist’s have it a little wrong or are missing some things.? “Veery Interesting” (Rowan & Martin’s “Laugh In“ 196-1973)
I can see your and other women's point, that a) O'ing at the same time mess with you O process and can de-rail or diminish it. b) O'ing at different times can be like two people each playing a different song ( every persons feelings are different), and each song is more appreciated separately than if played at the same time. c) O'ing at different times can lead to the W feeling like she has the H full attention, which she also enjoys, in addition to the sexy feelings. and d) the W also has a gift that she feels is more appreciated when given in an environment without so much going on. Kind of like giving something to someone. You say why you gave it. The other person listens to all you have to say w/o interrupting, you feel heard, respected, You got your 2 cents out w/o being blocked or side tracked.
