Stigmata's replies contained more faking elements/what if’s than I intended for my post to convey. When I post, I usually am thinking about a couple that have some problems but are basically honest and working toward a solution that is equitable for both, considering the circumstances.
- I apologize for any confusion, Lou. I rather thought your list was brilliant and deserves its own thread, ie, "What M Really Want from Sex."
What I did was take your thoughtful insights and illustrate how these open and honest wants or needs can be tainted or destroyed if one involves the title of this thread--Faking. All of those great feelings I felt reading and agreeing with your list are utterly destroyed if I see them in the light of having been "duped."
Mea apologia for ba$tardizing your astute list, Lou...like I said, that list should be a whole one-post thread of its own, where sneaky ba$tards like me can't find a reason to adulterate it.
-Stigmata-
The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man is the warrior views everything as a challenge; the ordinary man views everything as either a blessing or a curse.
-Yaqui shaman Don Juan-
...and that holds 2x true for nice guy wussies, DJ
