I don't know much about other women. I've only been able to talk about this with a couple of girlfriends. I think women are reluctant to talk about it for fear they will not measure up to their friends' stories. But again, that's just my experience. There are probably some circles of women friends who talk about sex explicitly and ofter. I've certainly learned a LOT from this board, but even here, people are reluctant to share nitty gritty details...
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Quote: My W does not like a lot of manual or oral stimulation. She said to me that it feels great, but it gets her only so far and then plateaus (there are exceptions to this rule, however)...she needs to feel me inside her to reach her "O".
Fortunately for me this is not and has never been true. Fortunately because my late husband was completely impotent from diabetes and my bf has ED. My O's are stronger when my vagina is empty, probably because the contraction has farther to travel when there is nothing in the way. The benefit of having the guy inside during O is more emotional to me than physical. Again, fortunately for me, since a hard E is something I seem doomed not to encounter again in this life...