Hi Mr_MD I have looked at some of your history and am glad to see things are on the mend for you. Just like it my case, there are a lot of issues to work through, certainly related to the SL now, but issues of trust, resentment, ego, all those fun things This is a great place to work through some of those issues so keep posting! No time to get into the details of your post but it was a good one. I especially found this line interesting: I've always considered it to the level of a fetish the female "O", as I am quickly turned off if she isn't into it. I think you are not alone there. Some guys want the woman to O "at all costs" and the pressure on women is very great. Faking is probably more likely in those R, as with your ex gf. I think your perspective now is a good one, but as Lil said, sometimes women really do want the O too. LFL
