Thank you very much for your perspective. I admit that not having very many opportunities to speak about this topic prior to finding this place, I have only had my own experience to draw upon and what I have had to interpret from what little my partners (past and present...eeyuck that sounds icky to pluralize!) have said on the topic.
If I understand you correctly, then it may very well be that it really depends on the individual? Or do you believe that most women share your POV? My W does not like a lot of manual or oral stimulation. She said to me that it feels great, but it gets her only so far and then plateaus (there are exceptions to this rule, however)...she needs to feel me inside her to reach her "O". This presents a problem when I have finished early as she usually seems disinterested in pursuing further
But hey, I'm a positive thinking guy. I take all this as an opportunity to learn about my m8, you know? Once again, thanks for your valuable perspective. I'm still trying to feel out how to discuss such an open and vulnerable topic!!! I really value everyone's openness and respect here...
