Stig -- I validate validate validate your anger over the idea of women faking. I can certainly why you would feel it is not fair TO YOU. I actually think this is a great reaction. The fear of fakers is that they will instead get the injured male ego reaction.
BF -- I thought this was brilliant:
The confrontation is necessary to get back to Intimacy. It can not be avoided. There is no easy button. Its our biological imperitive/job to lead the way.
Well for the most part, lol. In contrast to the male-centric last line, I think that it is the responsibility of both Ps to be direct, to not avoid confrontation, and to care enough to work through a problem. That being said, being strong and direct are definitely very attractive features in a man, so you offer excellent advice to the H's out there.
