Women have a job to do also, of accepting, being appreciative, being respectful, supporting, loving and not going toe to toe. Oh yeah, and eliminating filtering, the talking in code and constant testing. General example of testing---If he really cared, he would figure it/me out.
Um yeah. Right.
If we didnt care we wouldnt be there, slaving our butts off for home, hearth and family.
For specific details on how to do this, check with some of the succesful ladies. I still havent quite got it.
Ive been waiting for you to reply, but I dont know when I will be on again. So while Im sitting in my hotel in san fran, I thought I would take care of it. Its either that, go to a bar and practice my social skills, watch a movie or play online games. very unstimulating.
The sarcasm in my reply was unnecessary. It was in fact my first reaction to that part of your post. I took it out and then I put it back in. Why? because lately I have been taking a different tack of responding to some women some of the time with normal male reaction. I think the reaction and then discussing the dynamic that causes it is of value.
Just wanted to let you know, I do see both sides of it, know some of the reasons why women do this to stroke mens egos and also try to avoid by faking. Its not a solution though. Its avoidance and not even a bandaid to the problem.
Just wanted to remind you, Im on your side. (I hope.)
