I have a very difficult time telling my lover what to do. It has not so much been an issue in the past like it is now. Other people have been enthusiastic and so they tried a lot of different things so I enjoyed the anticipation of "what would he do next?" more than I worried about whether it was the perfect touch. H is so tentative that my reluctance to say anything has definately become a problem.
I would discuss more about this whole g spot thing, or some of those positions mentioned (one of my faves that H has never tried with me) but I am getting too horny. You can laugh but right now I am horny at that "can't concentrate teenager level" and I'm at work so I better get it under control.