Quote: Around the same time, Suzanne Gage and the Feminist Women's Health Centers published a book, which showed a picture of what the whole clitoris looked like— not just the little glans we see on the outside— but the whole body of the clit, which is hidden from our view, if not our touch. (i.e., the G-Spot)
The earth shifted under our pelvic floors. Women who had always said, "It's not in my head, I really do get off from penetration," had an explanation.
The clitoris is the external part of the Female Sexual Pleasure Organ; the so-called G-Spot is the internal part. They are two physical sides of the same body of tissue. In my book, ideally one would stimulate both areas at the same time, thus:
1) partner doing oral on the clit and manual or object on the G-Spot,
2) partner doing manual on the clit and manual on G-Spot simultaneously,
3) him doing penile penetration to hit the G-Spot WHILE him or you doing manual stimulation on the clit, or
4) solo: you doing manual on the clit while reaching inside if you can manage it or using an object (my personal fav is the handle of a hairbrush held in place with a pillow between my legs- how's that for TMI?) to stimulate the G-Spot.
I'm pretty sure all women have both of these places.
