GEL
Thanks for sharing.
Well, I have searched for my G Spot in the past but have never been able to achieve any of the sensations that come close to the clitoris so I just stopped searching. lol
I do recall an instance with OM (who was quite skilled at sex, if you haven't gathered by now lol) when he put his middle finger in me like you were saying and then he pressed down on the top of my pubic bone quite forcefully. Wow! That felt great but a different sensation than I know as my O. So he may have been in the area. Haven't felt anything like it since. sigh
So maybe I should educate my H to this whole area but the last thing I need is one more sexual expectation not being met He is very skilled at oral sex so I really can't complain too much.
I totally agree with your comments on being HD not really relating to O. I have had some great sex without an O so I understand that. The passionate/physical connection is what makes it so hot. Sometimes its just doing something different, out of the ordinary, that is so amazing. O is just icing on the cake.