Noooo problemo! Nope, I do not "O" by clitoral stimulation, it just simply does not do it for me....at all. I've tried every possible thing I can imagine....nada. I enjoy the contact sure enough, but it definitely does not bring me to an "O".....the ONLY way I've found so far that I can is by stimulating that G spot, and yes....that way I can absolutely "O" everytime!
Would I have considered myself HD prior to that....yes. I had a SD, I had the desire to have sex, I enjoyed sex...I enjoyed making my partner feel good and doing things for him too....so yes, definitely I would have considered myself HD. Sex, for me, has never been about my "O"....I enjoy them sure enough and when I want one, if I haven't already had one...I take care of it myself or ask my H to help me out.
Oh and I want to correct you on how you worded something....I had the G spot the entire time, he simply found it It can take a little while to rev up that spot but I couldn't tell you a real approximation of how long it takes me....never paid attention really LOL. I'm going to guess though....maybe 10 minutes or so, and it can easily be done while kissing and petting, so it's all good....doesn't matter how long it takes
Every woman has this spot inside her, it's not as easy for a woman to find since it's approx 3.5 - 4" or so inside (our fingers are often not quite long enough to comfortably work with it)....but if (sorry people if this is TMI) you take your middle finger and feel along the wall you will feel a little spot that kind of has the texture of the outside of a walnut...kind of bumpy....that's it! I've taught my H to use kind of a circular rubbing motion with his finger on it.....if he does that I can wet the bedsheets!
It can take a little while to rev up that spot but I couldn't tell you a real approximation of how long it takes me....never paid attention really LOL. I'm going to guess though....maybe 10 minutes or so, and it can easily be done while kissing and petting, so it's all good....doesn't matter how long it takes 
