So after we closed up shop and everyone left I walked into her office and firmly asked what she was doing. She replied that she would work late and then after a few seconds pause "and sleep here". I said ok and walked out.
Dont really know what to think of it. A little blip.
Walking in and asking was a bit of a 180 for me. Used to be Id skate around it.
Ive noticed our interplay to be changing lately. I make more decisions and am more in control. She is allowing it to happen. Something I read last night in Michelles book really hit home. she was talking about the seesaw and relating it to control. When one person just goes along with things the other becomes controlling. I had never thought of the seesaw effect applied to that. But its obvious.
I was a real conflict avoider. That has changed a lot and I plan on it changing more. It has felt really good when I've dealt with a situation immediatly rather than stew on it. I actually kinda enjoyed it.
I'm realizing more and more that I need to take charge of more things. It has been happening and I think doing more of it will be beneficial in so many ways.
