Yes I will bring her somewhere where we need to dress up. that's a great idea.
There was a time when she wouldn't even be around me alone. One of the main reasons we got so attached to our adopted daughter is because my W didn't want to be alone with me so she brought her along all the time. She would bring her over for dinner every night. This started prior to dropping the bomb.
Then around last November she didn't want to be around me at all. She came to work but as little as possible and we had no interactions. I would find whatever excuse I could find just to spend a minute or two with her. Eventually we would spend more and more time together. Now we are rarely apart. I'm trying to go do things on my own but she always ends up coming. Which I like but I do know that spending time apart makes things more interesting.
Last night we worked outside in the yard until late. It was refreshing.
Still in separate beds but I can say things are definetely more comfortable than they were even a week or so ago. Not where I want to be but still sigs of moving closer.
Which such little steps how will we take that one big step that needs to be taken?
She was a very sexual woman before we were married. Before the bomb it had been continually decreasing. Said she didn't feel like it anymore and didn't know what was wrong with her. I am pretty certain she is still very sexual although it's been nearly two years. I may have noticed evidence to that fact. So I'm not worried about anything physiological.
