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you are doing what I want for Nicola
you are planning to go do something without any particular invite for w and what happens
she is inviting herself along because she wants to be with you



Clearly, Xue's W has more interest in being with him than my H does with me. I do plenty of interesting things that he knows about (go to shows and things), but he certainly never asks to join me. Mind you, having kids does make things more difficult b/c one of us always has to have them.

Re. the make-up: I've never been very good at doing fancy stuff either, and often don't wear it all. I've only recently started wearing it every day to work and when H is coming over! I just use a little bit of foundation to even out my skin, a bit of blush and some powder to keep it on, some lipstick or gloss. If I'm really going all-out, I'll use one colour eye shadow and mascara. It's actually pretty easy when you keep it to a minimum. Problem is, makeup artists usually use tons of stuff even for the natural look, so it can be intimidating to even get them to show you how to put it on. Also, a lot of kits just have too much stuff in them, which is also overwhelming.

Maybe the two of you could have a make-up party!!

N


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