Hey Xue you are doing what I want for Nicola you are planning to go do something without any particular invite for w and what happens she is inviting herself along because she wants to be with you
GALing is about being interesting and doing stuff that the other person wants to be involved in the whole idea behind it is that they show interest well our w jumped from the showing interest stage to just going along how great that she feels comfortable enough to just follow you as if it is unspoken that she comes if she wants
if you take a look around not many people put makeup on very well - and it is a confident woman with great self-esteem that can walk around without it happy in who she is but that same confident woman can put on the makeup and know that she looks great with it
the trick is finding out what suits you - and making it look natural - highlighting the good bits
personally I like the whole oxymoron thing bj - bernie is a female who looks like a female but who drives a monster beast and who will turn up to some supersonic professional meeting with her hair up and curls falling in her eyes wearing a business suit with an eyebrow ring then she will sit there and listen and when she speaks oh my god what is that coming out of her mouth she is so intelligent but yesterday she was covered in mulch and looked really funny while trying to drill holes for window locks at her girlfriends place
next time you two go out you ought to make it at the kind of place that calls for nice dressing and makeup practice makes perfect
she likes to look great but her job doesn't call for that if she put on the makeup at work she is so serious about what she does it would run you need to have makeup places to go to
only a strong independent person can be dependent on someone and know that they are independent anyway
