I have thought for awhile that the your first problem was identified and fixed - but like you it kept evading me everything had changed after awhile there was no forward movement - kinda like those eggshells re-appeared but there was really not reason for them to be around it took me awhile but I realised that you were not building
not recreating the how it goes on from here kinda both stuck in time not sure how to proceed
I love this
Quote: The idea that I am going to do my own thing no matter what. I'd sure like you to come along. As a matter of fact I'd love it. But I'm going this way for me.
it makes you more interesting gives you more to talk about and this makes you more fun to be around its sort of like you become this whole person (which you are) and not half of something it shows you are secure in you - and her - and the relationship
everything is a matter of perception - GAL is a matter of changing perceptions giving someone the chance the to miss you so that when you are together you have interesting things to discuss is great and I think particularly important in your case especially as you both spend so much time together that you most likely became complacent about life
I have been following Frank's stich and his wife made some comment about the movie 'shall we dance' with Richard Gere and Jo Lo I bought the dvd and watched it last night Gere makes a comment that I think possibly sums up you and your w he says to his w in the movie (near the end) he loves her more than anything but he isn't happy and he didn't want to share this (unhappiness) with the one person who meant the most to him
it's a pretty good movie about a guy who does the same thing day in day out isn't happy with HIS life loves his wife and starts to learn to dance as you watch he changes and smiles and has fun and is sometimes silly - his wife panics and thinks he is having an affair anyhow you gotta watch it - bit of chick flick and I don't usually like them but it makes you smile and kinda shows you how people can be with someone they love with all their heart and still be unhappy with how things are
