Quote: So "serious discussions" translates as sex.
how do you know this - can you see inside her head? is it possible that it means no serious discussions?
so your not going because of budgetary restrictions how about you plan to go in the near future - get a map look where you are going get on the net look what you can do while there
I just read 5LL's as you know and one of the things they said as a possible to do picnic in the cemetry at first I thought no way - then realised they are quiet places with people at rest and it went on to say that that you could discuss people there I guess I always like walking around old cemetries and wondering what the people in the really old graves where like and what they did
I think the book was saying you could talk about things you wanted to do before you died
but what about a picnic in the park - or feeding the ducks and that time of the month - well truly I believe that is a little bit of learned behaviour (learn to stress, be anxious, depressed, be cranky etc etc) and partners learn to use it as a pointer to stay away etc so unless there are real clinical issues with 'that time of the month' such as extreme pain, emotional upheavals like crying for no reason etc (where the person should go to the doctors as there is no reason to feel any of these things) then you need to unlearn what you do around this time - and be more relaxed.
your w is a very healthy fit person and should only feel slightly uncomfortable but after the massage she should feel great and relaxed. maybe that is more the reason why the comment nothing serious so just saying don't jump to conclusions or practice mind reading abilities find something to do that costs nothing and plan the next 'coast day' with a big picnic etc bake a cake for easter, paint some eggs, there has to be lots of stuff you can do together different than what you usually do together hell get out the nail polish and paint each others toe nails in rainbow colours
thinking cap on start a journal and paste picutures in it and notes of all the things you want to do in life change a room around - feng shui your house together you are smart what can you do
