OK a trial step forward. This morning we both got massages. We're both full of knots in our backs.
the massage therapist noted that we were both a mess. So afterwards, as we sat down to breakfast, I suggested we take the day off and head to the coast. No reply but I figure it's better than a no.
After breakfast she comes in and says "ok we can go to the coast but no (long pause) serious discussions" I say "wasn't planning any" she says we can go if it's just to relax and she doesn't have to stress on anything.
So "serious discussions" translates as sex.
So I have no idea how to take this. Should I be happy that she agreed to go. Should I be dissapointed or concerned that she spelled out the no sex rules. No idea right at the moment.
My first response was some pretty big anxiety although I tried real hard not to show it.
I'm having a real hard time understanding her.
So we're probably not going to the coast. she said the budgets a little tight this weekend. However we are probably going to find something to do.
