Hey Xue

nah they don't train you to do that
I think it something I just do and have always done
being an artistic type I see pictures often
they teach you the theoretical framework for stuff and what is evidence based
but how you use it is up to the individual
solution focused does get a bit more concrete by giving examples of exemptions and how to continue the session when things get stuck
that is why you always need to try different people because it depends on how people use the knowledge and how they are able to get it across to clients/patients
so though two psych's may have the same knowledge they have a different way of talking and of course different personalities shaped by their own upbringing
no two are alike
I always say if you find one and it doesn't work out go see another find the one right for you

you may have to write a book after this
how to solve the problems in your relationship for males written by a male who did it

WCW have not heard from the farrier for a very long time
at times am very concerned about him - I have even tried the yellow pages in the UK looking up farriers called Sean or with an S but as we don't know his last name I didn't get anywhere
I also looked up newspaper reports on the Monty Roberts show just incase I could find reference to a local being in the show I don't where else to try and find him did you have any ideas???


See Xue another person we lost from the BB's Sean was a lovely man in the UK and WCW used to talk to him he seemed to be going ok for awhile and then around Christmas well nothing

don't you disappear on me as WCW says keep posting
people on here need to see a happy ending story

bj


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