I've been in newcomers since the end of Oct 05. Wife moved out late October and I found this place a day or so later. we've been through a lot. We've both made some major changes and our interactions are now pretty good.
During the separation she would stay occasionally and those occassionally slowly got longer. A month ago today she seemed to move back in but hasn't officially stated that she has. Seems to imply so though.
We spend a great deal of time together and get along great. No fighting typically although the stress of running a business together occasionally interferes.
We have had no intimacy for 1 1/2 years.
We seemed to be slowly moving towards intimacy. We kissed on the lips regularly but occassionally this regressed and she would stop kissing me. We seem to be in one of those periods right now. She would kiss me square on the lips and then less and less to now she sometimes turns her cheek when I go to kiss her.
This seems to cycle.
She had been planning a D only a few months ago. Had consulted with a lawyer.
