Cally you said! "I guess you can say we were both battling one another and both to stubborn to give in."

Two stubborn people can get in a contest and end up losing the things the hold most dear by this refusal. My Dad use to say some times you have to forget about pride and principal push your ego aside and to get what your really want. What good does it do to try and prove your point if you lose whats most important too you?

I don't remember where I have seen it but, I have seen that many times too get what you want you have to give the other person what the want. You might think about doing yourself a favor and put all the junk that happen before behind you for atleast the weekend go for it from a new or really old perspective like when you were first married. What do you have to lose?