Gwyn.

Glad to hear that you are taking care of YOU. I’m not sure what to think of H’s attitude. It’s possible when he sees you looking good he feels guilty about what he is throwing away. Was your H a controlling type person? He might feel a loss of control and a bit threatened by your self confidence. I’m thinking it should get better in time… if not, you’re better off with out him, but it sounds like you already know that.

As far as what he does with his hands … take it as a complement!!! Take care.

ALL "Life may not be the party we hoped for... but while we are here we might as well dance!"