Quote: To my H's credit, he has done so much to regain my trust. All I have to do is hint that I need something, and it's taken care of for me. He reassues me that he loves me, truely remorseful, can't believe he let himself get into this mess, etc, etc.
He'll probably be a while getting over being depressed, he knows the mess he created. He seems like he enjoys serving you, it probably helps him feel better about himself. I understand how you want him to know how you feel, but he might not be ready to deal with anymore right now.
