Gwen!!!!!!!!! I am glad you found me, the last time I saw you on the board I was in newcomers and now I have “graduated” to Surviving, thanks for dropping in! I didn’t know you were back on the board and as you can imagine I don’t spend any time hanging out in the Piecing form. Although maybe I should brush up just in case, my STBX sent me a note yesterday asking me if I wanted to get back together. Hmmmmm, I’ll have to think about that………………….okay, enough thinking, I don’t want to get back together. There that was easy, wasn’t it?
I am not sure if you want any advice from a guy that has given up on his relationship but you know me… I’m going to offer it anyway. I would give H a little room to breathe, I know you have questions about OW but I think you should be very careful about how and when you ask them. I would set some self imposed limits on this, like only being able to bring the subject up one day a week or something like that. I know if I were H, I would get depressed if I thought I could get blindsided with OW questions at anytime.
Other than that I wouldn’t worry much about H, if he want’s to be depressed in the morning, let that be his problem, go on with your day. I still feel that H is a bit of a manipulator and he does not deserve your sympathy.
And on those days when things get really tough and you need something to pull you through, I suggest chocolate! Lots of chocolate and then a trip to the gym. Hee hee!
((((((((Gwen))))))))
Take care my rebel friend!
Al (The Yankee)
ALL
"Life may not be the party we hoped for... but while we are here we might as well dance!"
