Read this several time and keep it close to your heart.

I AM STANDING FOR THE HEALING OF MY MARRIAGE!... I will not
give up, give in, give out or give over 'til that healing
takes place. I made a vow, I said the words, I gave the
pledge, I gave a ring, I took a ring, I gave myself, I
trusted GOD, and said the words, and meant the words... in
sickness and in health, in sorrow and in joy, for better or
for worse, for richer or for poorer, in good times and in
bad...so I am standing NOW, and will not sit down, let
down, slow down, calm down, fall down, look down or be
down 'til the breakdown is torn down!


I refuse to put my eyes on outward circumstances, or listen
to prophets of doom, or buy into what is trendy, worldly,
popular, convenient, easy, quick, thrifty, or
advantageous... nor will I settle for a cheap imitation of
God's real thing, nor will I seek to lower God's standard,
twist God's will, rewrite God's word, violate God's
covenant, or accept what God hates, namely divorce!


In a world of filth, I will stay pure; surrounded by lies I
will speak the truth; where hopelessness abounds, I will
hope in God: where revenge is easier, I will bless instead
of curse; and where the odds are stacked against me, I will
trust in God's faithfulness.


I am a STANDER, and I will not acquiesce, compromise,
quarrel or quit.. I have made the choice, set my face,
entered the race, believed the Word, and trusted God for
all the outcome.


I will allow neither the reaction of my spouse, nor the
urging of my friends, nor the advice of my loved ones, nor
economic hardship, nor the prompting of the devil to make
me let up, slow up, blow up, or give up 'til my marriage is
healed.


"A man of knowledge uses words with restraint, and a man of understanding is even-tempered. Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue." Proverbs 17:27-28