Should you talk to him? I can't answer that. What could he tell you that would change things? WILL he tell you that? What could he say that would damage things? Will he say those things? Those are the great unknowns and it's why it's a leap of faith to start the dialog once again with our WAS. Like all decisions in this process, you only make the decision when you feel most prepared for ANY outcome, not just the one you HOPE for.
GREAT advice GH. Well said.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
