What? I can tell you what you already know. If you are wondering whether you should have slept with someone the answer is probably no. Quit telling him you won't have sex with him when you will. Quit telling yourself it is something that just happens and take ownership. It is ludicrous for SO to hold you accountable in any way for his lateness. He tells you not to feel uncomfortable so that he feels like a good guy. Even if you feel comfortable calling him, you are not his mommy. Take him on the trip to see niece if you want to....
