OK...so tomorrow will be one month that SO has moved out. I figure it's time to take stock of things. Some things I've noticed
1. He calls/texts/emails - all the time, unprompted. When we were 'together', I could barely get him to call to let me know how late he was going to be - now, he calls all the time. Now that he isn't feeling "controlled"; "expected"???
He seems to expect contact from me - i.e. Saturday night, for example. I woke up to an email from him that said "No texts, dammit" from 2:30 AM. ??? I haven't been texting him, except to answer him, now he wants me to? LOL And WHY is he thinking of me at 2:30 AM??
2. Hugs are getting longer...lol. Noticed this yesterday, when he hugged me in front of friend and last week in front of my mother
3. A teeny, tiny bit more open with feelings...I've noticed this in his manner of writing/talking to me. His style is a little different; a little less reserved. I've noticed apologies where I would never get them before; explanations when I don't ask.
Goals for the week: Personal 1. Tie up job 2. Get paint for bathroom and/or master bedroom 3. More GAL efforts; work on kid schedule with him
Relationship Hah. Stymied here. No ideas right now except for maybe "Go with the flow" and "no expectations". Maybe watch & wait, see what this week brings. 1. Continue little 180's and big one's. LOL That is - changing my reactions. That's getting a lot easier for me. 2. Make some R Goals.
That's all for now. Can't think - need more coffee!
