I've got something that I want to share, in hopes of trying to understand it. Doesn't really have anything to do with me, although it made me very sad, and I'm not sure why.
One of SO's friends embarked on an A about 2 years ago or so. This woman is from our neighboring Northern Country and she would come here for months on end to be with MF. Their A was on/off for a while, including MF moving out and living in a hotel with the GF for about a year.
MF told me over the summer that he finally was back to working on his M with his W. Now him & the wife lived with his parents for the entire time they've been married. About 10 years. MF said he thought things were going well and then he came home one day to find his W with moving trucks and she packed up & moved out - and hasn't been seen or heard from since.
Now he's back with the woman he had the A with. He's actually moved her and her 2 kids into his parents house, into the very room he shared with his W.
Now - the part I really don't understand....He was here yesterday, and as I was handing him something, I saw he was wearing his wedding band!! I swear, my mouth hit the tile! I'm just so disturbed by it and I don't know why. It's been bothering me since yesterday morning - so much so that it almost made me cry (when I was alone thinking about it).
