I'm not such a good writer - I have a real hard time trying to convey what I'm thinking into words. So maybe I'm not writing as effectively as possible.

I have asked him numerous times to give me a schedule (only got a short one and it's changed already); asked him for input - he shrugs and says I don't know - you figure it out. So, in some ways, it does make me bitter. I feel like he only wants the kids when his schedule allows.

But I could be wrong, which makes me hesitant. Which is what started this whole debate!! LOL I knew there wasn't anything to be done about this weekend; and as the next 2 weeks go by, his "new" job should be going better by then...so........

I guess I need to sit down with him, like you said OT, and hash this out agreeably. And stop making something out of potentially nothing.