See before we moved into this house, we were living where he works...and prior to bomb dropping....and prior to this job schedule he know he has...he was not working this much and was on afternoons, not mornings.
We did go out once/week. We just didn't go out until after the kids were asleep....or only D7 was up...and D18months wasn't even born yet!!! So, we did make the time for US. He also used to gt up once/week in the morning and take care of the kids/get D7 off to school....so that I could have a morning off and sleep in....of course all this pre-crapthatwerelivingnow.
So...we bought a new house, in a new town, I was pregnant, he got a new time slot, and bomb dropped - pretty much all simultaneously. How's that for a big, fat mess???
