It sounded pretty much like that. I guess I'm just wondering if these daily little back and forth things are good for you or if they are hurting you or neither. (I have no idea, lol.) If you want them for some reason, that's fine. But if you are just engaging with him to take care of his feelings at the expense of your own well being, that's problematic....
I know I spent a lot of time and energy on this kind of interaction with XH that really was not good for me or for our R. But, you and SO are different individuals in a different R, so things might be different for you.
