OK, so I think he's feeling the burn, but, I'm not sure how to deal with this.
After a beautiful day on Saturday, including several compliments from SO, him coming and sitting behind me and hugging me; hugging me a long goodbye; him saying he's miserable; numerous phone calls about nothing thru the weekend...today he started with the sleeping together thing. Emailing me about it...I told him no. When he gets here, he's giving me the silent treatment. So I left. I had an appointment, but I left about an hour earlier than I was going to.
He calls, asked why I left in such a hurry. I told him I wasn't going to sit there and have him treat me with an attitude, so I left. We kind of got into about the sleeping together thing; I spouted off at the mouth that by me sleeping with him, it made a mockery out of the whole reason why he moved out; made a joke out of the reasons why we aren't together anymore; and makes a joke out of whatever other relationship he's in.
When I get home, he's sleeping in my bed; in his underwear. I did lay down next to him. He angrily said he'd respect my decision and is there someone else? I said "Yes, in your life. Not mine."
I can't stand this. He's so angry with me. I just don't know how to deal with this. I finally told him that if he wasn't so bull-headed, he could figure out what would be needed to change my mind. I did notice that he went on the computer and took out the line re: OW.
I feel like I was making progress and now this anger. It feels like a step back...or is it? Is this anger a sign of progress? So now, I know he's going to give me the silent treatment some more. I *want* to email him or something, but I guess I shouldn't.
