Nice work detaching. You've got the hang of it. It might feel like a bit of an act at first, but it comes naturally after a short amount of practice.
I've been reading your thread and really just wanted to say you are doing so well. It's only such a short time since your so moved out, yet you behaving with dignity and grace. It's fantastic.
I understand you are still in a great deal of pain, and I understand that applying these principles is still quite new for you - but you're going great guns.
Stick to it.
You do get what you settle for - and that's a really powerful message to understand.
Cheers, Virginia
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.