Hi NM, I have been following your sich and just wanted to pop in and comment on your detaching. I am sortof at the same point and know how hard it is, especially with kids. (H and I have D3) I don't have much to offer in the way of advice right now since I am so confused about this all too, but just wanted to offer up support - good job on trying to detach. God knows it isn't easy, but hopefully gets easier as time passes. Also, I have read from other posters that it is best not to tell the WASs about yoru changes (very hard not to!!) but rather they should find out in other ways, I guess so they don't think you are doing anything purposely to try to manipulate the situation....Good luck!!
