My going dark scares him. He's not sure he wants me, but he won't let me go, either.
Okay, why not try something different. Either scare the heck out of him by going dark for a whole week. Real dark. Or, since ow is starting to lose it, why not help her over the edge... What if you gave SO something special to put in his apartment from you, something that would stand out and piss her off. What if you called him several times a day when you knew she was around - wasn't emotional as to piss him off, but rather flirtatious and.or informational in regards to the kdis etc.