Quote: Quote: ------ so I got back up and decided to do so. Which I did. 2 lines: "Congratulations! Amazing, as always. Now, go get a drink & relax!" SO replied with "thanks!"....yes, back in my mind I was thinking - hope OW wonders who he's texting at midnite!
---------------------- This was strong NM!
Just remember how he;s treating you, is also how he's treating OW. Only you have many years and kids and skills of strengtht hat she does not have.
I bet you were sooo right bout her being unhappy in thost photos.
I guess you don't need me to remind you to not look up his stuff.Please. You have so much more power over this situation than you realize.
It doesn't sound like he's happy being in his new place. If he was happy with OW< why would he keep stringing you along?
No, he's confused messed up and I'm sure treating ow terribly. You are strong. You are the rock. You do rock!!!
Thanks Whitelight:
It was difficult for me to act "as if" I knew nothing when I sent him the text. The part about her not being happy was confirmed by a friend who was at the event and told me OW was extremely PO'd with SO that night. It shouldn't matter, I shouldn't take any satisfaction from hearing this, but - HAH! LOL Ok, got it out of my system. LOL
Last night after SO left - he called 3 times in one hour. I only spoke with him once; kept it short and light and reiterated I had plans for today. Today already got an email from him saying Good morning and that he fell asleep by 8. I answered with Everyone's good, glad you got some sleep, have a good day. Short & simple.
Today I'm going to try and get some job applications. Not easy with the 2 little ones, but I need to get my butt in gear.
