Yes, it appears from what she has posted you are right about her. I hadn't thought about that if they belive the LBS is an awful person they don't have to face the guilt of their actions being involved in breaking up someone else's marriage. That does fit for people's need to self justify doesn't it?

I thought the photos were tastefully done as well.

On the other hand I don't believe that D isn't good and over me so that wouldn't be a cause for my OW to have posted. I think she is just a spiteful B*tch and thought she could rub something in but since my blinders are gone I can see that D definitely has some issues he needs to deal with to have a sucessful R with anyone! I would have tried to work things out with him but with no changes I could never have lived that way again!!! I have discovered I *like* being in charge of me!!!

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"