Hey Ellie... Have always thought that you give good advice. I have been stuck in my sitch for almost a year now.. (in one week will be a year). I still don't see real progress in my sitch. I don't know what else I can do. I don't want to file the legal papers as that would be toooooo easy for H. I know the legal papers just dissolve the legality of my marriage, doesn't change our R one bit. But how do I move on? I have been doing rather well on my own, with the kids... and then H would call and be all concerned and all, and I get depressed again. And seem like I have to start climbing again.
