And it's FINE to offer those perspectives - just not fine to imply that no one posts to you because you don't follow their advice, or to not listen when someone says they hear your perspective but do not believe it is the right approach for their sitch. (It's fine, btw, to say "I don't post often because you don't take my advice" - but not to say "nobody posts to you because you don't take their advice".)
I feel she's very clearly HEARING you - she just doesn't agree. And that's fine too. I'm sure she's putting your input into her memory banks. I believe ALL perspectives are valuable.
