Just wanted to chime in. The reason I avoid posting is twofold. First, if you say one thing which is different, you get your head bitten off. The other is that you see someone spinning so far out of control that you just don't know what to say.
One other thing. Why do people continue to call it advice when all people are doing is offering perspective and suggestions? You're a smart woman. You should be able to see the difference. I know when I first came to the board, I wanted to hear as many ideas as possible, mainly because I smart enough to know that I didn't know it all.
Did you know back in the day, I was told to take my head out of my rear end (though not said like that)? Did you know SWL was called pathetic? You know what we did? We may have had an initial surge of anger, but then we said wait, that was something worth listening to.
