SWL - I'm not interested in getting into a conflict. I simply felt that this comment:
Quote: Have you ever wondered why you get very few responses? Check your threads.
was impolite and I understand why she took it personally. The number of responses is not a measure of how "good" a DBer someone is, or even of how well they take advice.
Believe me, I've been guilty myself of giving people advice they didn't want to hear and of pushing a little too hard when I thought someone didn't "get it". I just think she's made it pretty clear she's heard you guys but doesn't agree that it's the right approach for her sitch.