You control the chips or lock to the sex. Your have to make the decision for yourself. I would love to sit with my wife and talk or spend a evening together without our son. You will learn alot from what happens.
"A man of knowledge uses words with restraint, and a man of understanding is even-tempered. Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue." Proverbs 17:27-28
