Sam, thanks for your posts. I started to reply to Just and then could not finish it b/c I had to bring S3 to bed, so did not read your posts till now.
I think you and Just understand my situation, and value your opinions. Maybe I need to talk to a pro, you are right. I do want to believe this time H is serious, but then again I have some uncomfortable feeling as well. And I think that's normal. I remember reading Just's thread and I think he felt that way at the beginning.
I just really hope that my H is not trying to "use" me again... I would totally lose my respect for him then.
Anyway, I should not just speculate. I happened to say the same thing as you suggested Sam. I think I am going to ask H what HE thinks needs to be done to save our M.
Do you think sending these questions tomorrow but w/o saying yes or no YET would be okay, or should I just tell him that I need more time to think about this?
