VLM,

Ok, so other than the lackanookie and his mannerisms....there's no indication that the man is gay? He's probably not. I certainly do understand your thinking of that possibility though; I think EVERY woman who finds her self in an R where there's little to no sex thinks that is a possibility.....I know I certainly thought it was possible with my H as well.

There could be a plethora of other issues going on inside him that are preventing him from being "intimate" with you in many ways VLM.

I noticed that you asked him if he wanted to get intimate...and he agreed....yet neither of you did anything about it? Let me repeat that, neither of you did anything about it. What stopped you from following through when he agreed? You asked, he agreed....the door was open.

I completely understand all the crap that comes along with being a woman having to initiate constantly....BEEEELIEVE me I do. BUT, you two can talk things til you are blue in the face, until one of you phsically takes action....nothing will change.

Not lambasting ya here....so I hope you don't take my comments that way. I just know, having dealt with my own H that if you simply ask if he wants to have sex....and then wait on him to make the next move.....you will keep waiting. ONE of you has to break the inertia.

GEL


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