Congrats on that. I have done Weight Watchers before, lost 83 pounds, and gained it back. I don't really believe in doing weight loss programs and diets and will never be involved in a program or go on a diet again, and I certainly am never going to get "weight-loss surgery," but that's a whole other story. I have been working out and doing an internal cleansing program, for which I have lost about 10-15 pounds, but gained back 5 mostly due to this week being highly stressful, not working out and not watching what and how much I was eating.
My husband grew up in a household with a strict, almost emotion-less father and went to Catholic school, so most of his feelings about sex and sexual desire were highly repressed. I know we need to go go counseling, but I am just so tired of this whole "waiting and worrying." Waiting until I lose weight is just an excuse, as far as I'm concerned, so we can have sex again. I still am worried he may be gay or bi and just repressing his desires and has been using me as a beard for the past 5 years.
